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Talking to Myself

One never enjoys life while holding the door closed against reality. When we find ourselves anxious or angry or fearful, the object of these negative emotions needs to be faced. Otherwise, it will dominate our thoughts and absorb our energies. Then life becomes a sustained effort at avoiding real issues.

(Michael Casey, Toward God: The Ancient Wisdom of Western Prayer)

Just came across this quote, read it multiple times, and then realized I needed to type it – in great big letters – and hit “publish.” For my own sake. Hope it says something to/for you, as well.

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Shawna Cevraini July 12, 2010 at

That sustained effort is completely exhausting! Been there, done that. No more! :) Thanks for the quote – going to put that on our bathroom wall!
Shawna Cevraini´s last [type] ..Nearsighted

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Ronna Detrick July 12, 2010 at

I’ve heard of the kitchen fridge, but not the bathroom wall! Love this, Shawna! And I’m glad it speaks to you, as well.

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Nicki July 12, 2010 at

Thanks, Ronna! This quote is one I needed to see this morning.
Nicki´s last [type] ..Nerves

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Ronna Detrick July 12, 2010 at

Mmmm. I’m glad, Nicki. And SO with ya!

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kim July 12, 2010 at

This is my life summed up. The big question, where to begin to change it and how?

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Ronna Detrick July 12, 2010 at

Kim: I have often asked a similar question. Just yesterday a friend said to me, “Move your feet, Ronna. Just step forward.” Simple words. Seemingly complex action. Yet I’m stunned by how often I can just remain in place, stuck, immobile. The contrast between that and ANY movement makes more difference than I can ever imagine before I just do it…And more times than not, I have to stop “imagining” and just “do!”

Glad you’re here.

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Rachel July 12, 2010 at

Wow, that is powerful. There are a lot of things I don’t like to face, but you are right. Nothing is ever as bad as I fear it will be once I bring it out into the light.

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Josie July 13, 2010 at

Excellent quote, thanks for sharing. Are you familiar with Byron Katie’s work at all? :-)

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Ronna Detrick July 13, 2010 at

You’re welcome, of course. And I’ve heard of Byron Katie, but not much more. Just checked out the website. Do you have thoughts/experience of her?

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Rachel July 13, 2010 at

Byron Katie is amazing. She radiates light and peace – any of her books are fantastic. She also has a lot of videos on her site: http://www.thework.com/index.php

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Ronna Detrick July 14, 2010 at

I’ll look into her more closely. Thanks Rachel.

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Sera July 18, 2010 at

A perfect quote to keep nearby at all times, for those moments. I also keep seeing a great one, ‘over-analysis leads to paralysis.’ I am keeping these close to remind myself where NOT to go!

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Ronna Detrick July 18, 2010 at

I hear ya! We’re all too familiar with these spaces, aren’t we? But once we’ve breathed the air in more expansive ones, we DO NOT want to return!!! You’re SO not alone, Sera.

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kim July 18, 2010 at

I really like that quote Sera-writing that one down for sure. I am guilty of over analysis so often.

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Sera July 18, 2010 at

Kim I think it’s via @WEPromote on twitter that I’ve seen that a few times. It is so relevant for me, as I’ve found myself too close to a state of paralysis since finishing college in ’08 and not having much luck in the economy since then….

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Ronna Detrick July 18, 2010 at

Love that you and Kim are having conversation with one another, Sera! Conversation makes all the difference. I’m CONVINCED of it! All good!

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Ronna Detrick July 18, 2010 at

It’s an easy place for us to go, Kim, this over-analyzing. Somehow it feels safer…or like the only safe place we can go. I get it. When we finally realize (not all at once, but in fits and starts) that what goes on in our heads is only in our heads and that there are steps we can take in the here and now, the everyday, with words spoken, emotions revealed, truth told, then our figuring and analyzing slows and our action picks up. Painful. Scary. Sometimes 180 degrees from what we thought/hoped; but movement nonetheless, that takes us on a journey we could have never imagined while we stayed in our heads…I’m hopeful on your behalf…

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