Land (or crash) the Plane

I’ve been working on brand strategy and its articulation for the past few days. There are lots of compelling reasons, but the bottom line is that I need to land the plane. And, as my boyfriend says, “be willing to crash it.”

It’s easy for me to stay in the high-altitude world of a generalist; to be good at many things, an expert at none. It feels safer, somehow. Like if I don’t define the thing I do, I can potentially do a ton. Seductive, but not sane. And bottom line, not true to what I am most passionate about, compelled by, and yes, best and most brilliant at.

Playing it safe is just an illusion. The plane has got to land!

It seems safe to consider all options. It seems safe to stay up in the clouds. But eventually the plane runs out of fuel.

Not choosing is dangerous.

Danielle told me over a year ago during our Firestarter Session, “You already know what you do, Ronna. Stop talking about anything else and help the rest of us see what you’re brilliant at!” I’ve heard and read it a million more times since then. I’ve gotten close. I’ve shied away. I’ve buzzed the ground. I’ve pulled back on the yoke and taken yet another pass. Still no landing.

Now, after circling far too long, I come home. Where I began is where I return. What I was most passionate about then remains true. My love remains strong. My ardor has not cooled. And my expertise, specialization, and “brilliance” have only become more visible. No obstructed vision. No turbulence. The landing strip is in view.

So why the hesitation?

I have my own reasons. What about yours? Why are you afraid to land the plane? (And believe me, that plane can represent anything: Relationships. Work. Web Copy. A mission statement. Hard decisions about money. Fill in the blank.)

It’s time to land the damn thing – even crash it!

My hunch is that your reality is similar to mine; staying in a sky of possibilities feels safer than choosing the one thing. You’re not blind: you can see the landing strip. And you’re pretty certain that a smooth touch-down is yours if you wait long enough, deliberate long enough, ponder and muse long enough. But in the meantime, the fuel is running out. And you’re fearful that flames, smoke, and charred bodies await.

I get it.

It’s time, all risks inherent, to land the plane.

Let’s do it together, shall we? Life vests. Oxygen masks. Seats as flotation devices. Land. The. Plane.

  • Name what you’re most passionate about, what you desire most deeply, what you’d give anything to have/be/do.
  • Name what you’re most afraid of in stating (and living) that such is so.
  • And then zero in on those coordinates and bring it home. Right into the eye of the storm, baby.

You might crash. I might, as well. But we’ll be on the ground. Engines screaming. Power contained. Hot. And beyond ready to deplane.

I’ll greet you at the gate.

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Shawna Cevraini February 8, 2011 at

Let’s do THIS!!!

Ronna, I’ve been circling and circling…been afraid to really commit to doing what I love. It might be crazy. “they” may not approve…but then this past couple weeks I reached out…I asked…I took chances…and the Plane is coming down! It’s starting to happen! It’s scary but exciting!!! Thx for being in the co-pilot chair!
Shawna Cevraini´s last [type] ..New Hair New Heart

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Ronna Detrick February 8, 2011 at

Scary, but exciting. Movement – tentative, but forward. All good, Shawna. Yep – co-piloting right along with you! Land, woman!

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jane February 8, 2011 at

BINGBONG ” Air Spectacular would like to Announce the arrival of flight marvellous could the pilot please head to the spa for a complementary cocktail and pampering” BINGBONG
jane´s last [type] ..making a face

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Ronna Detrick February 8, 2011 at

I’d love the complimentary cocktail and pampering! Invitation accepted! :)

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Shauntelle February 8, 2011 at

Wow, this has been a lesson I worked to really get most of last year!

For me, it was a twin set of fears… that I might miss out on something awesome if I set my sights on just ONE thing and that I might actually really, truly, SHINE… and then where would I be? I mean, that might mean letting go of the variety of neurosis that made up what I thought of as “ME”… and I might offend someone or leave someone behind… might piss someone off by actually being amazing and good and letting it show.

So glad I’ve managed to shed (most of) that. I feel better in my skin than I ever have before…
Shauntelle´s last [type] ..Weekend Warrior- Almost done

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Ronna Detrick February 8, 2011 at

Mmmmm. So glad to hear/read this Shauntelle! Thanks for leading the way and reminding the rest of us that it can be done…without crashing!

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Bob Beverley February 8, 2011 at

Hi Ronna,

Terrific use of the plane image…..I will be one of many waiting for your plane to land…..it will not crash–you are smart, creative, and loving, and anything you offer will be appreciated by alert people who see your obvious good will, tremendous ability to listen, and skill at searching for depth. all the best and much peace,

Bob Beverley
http://www.findwisdomnow.com

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Ronna Detrick February 8, 2011 at

I can see you at the gate, Bob, cheering my landing. Thank you. So grateful for your words, your heart, your presence.

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Tessa Zeng February 8, 2011 at

Fantastic points, Ronna! I can’t resist a good metaphor post, and you really nailed it!

Now for the naming game…

1) I would give anything to be able to effectively convey what I believe is wrong with the world + what it’s going to take to create a whole new ballgame.

2) I’m terrified of not being taken seriously/alienating the people I need the most. I SEE it, I BELIEVE in it so passionately… and yet I fear that I lack the right techniques for putting it out there.

Okay, the way I see it, I’m juggling my truth and fear in the air here. How do I not drop the right ball? I think I’m getting hung up on how to juggle and maybe it’s going to take a whole new act altogether?
Tessa Zeng´s last [type] ..FLY A Public Art Intervention

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Ronna Detrick February 8, 2011 at

Love, love, love that you chose to name right here, right now, Tessa! That’s landing the plane in and of itself!

And though I don’t know all of what you’re thinking/dreaming/hoping, I would say that your voice, when grounded in hope, can’t help but inspire all of us to change. That said, I spend a lot of time thinking about how we might change the structures and systems (at least of thought) all together. I’m pretty convinced that we’ve got most everything upside down and backwards when it comes to predominant philosophies of thought and ways of seeing the world – particularly where theology is concerned (but don’t get me started…). So for you to be considering new paradigms, new lenses, new acts? Beautiful. And full, full, full of hope!

Land the plane, Tessa. The right people will be there for you. Definitely.

And if you’re up for it, I’d love to hear more specifics on #1. Email me: ronna@ronnadetrick.com if you’re so inclined!

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Kelly February 8, 2011 at

This bought tears to my eyes and made me so excited at the same time. Brilliant analogy, brilliant post.

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Ronna Detrick February 8, 2011 at

Thank you, Kelly. ‘Appreciate you saying so – and being here.

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Bridget February 8, 2011 at

The sky of possibilities is a beautiful place. And it’s time for many of us to come down. Thanks for writing this. I read it, right when I needed it.
Bridget´s last [type] ..Shadows

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Ronna Detrick February 9, 2011 at

Possibilities are all good, aren’t they? So is coming home. Thanks, Bridget.

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Amy Oscar February 9, 2011 at

I’m in the exact same place – landing the plane, afraid it will crash, afraid I’ll get hurt, pigeonholed, humiliated. I’m also afraid I’ll feel something enormous, something overwhelmingly REAL. What I find most telling about this place – in between air and land – is the truth it reveals about the life I’ve been leading before, the life I’m leaving. For me, the real fear is that this project WON’T rescue me, WON’t Liberate me, WON’T land me in a new place. That’s my real fear – because having been aloft and seen whats possible and also, how I have NOT been living it, it would be hard to land back there.

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Ronna Detrick February 9, 2011 at

So with you, Amy. So aware of the value of “middle spaces.” But even they offer their own trap. Did I mention I’m with you? Thank you for being here with me.

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Lori February 9, 2011 at

You’re not supposed to scare me to death before breakfast, Ronna.

Or maybe you are. Oy.

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Ronna Detrick February 9, 2011 at

Mmmmm. And on some level, Lori, the fact that you chose to type these very words tells me that I am, indeed, landing the plane. Thank you!!!

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Amanda Farough February 9, 2011 at

Let’s do this, baby.
Amanda Farough´s last [type] ..Know when to collaborate and when the run for the hills

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The Boyfriend February 9, 2011 at

To land an aircraft, the airspeed and the rate of descent are reduced to where the object descends at a slow enough rate to allow for a gentle touch down.

Most landings are botched because of either excessive airspeed and/or a bad approach.

The passengers are certainly interested in who or what awaits them at their destination. They want a quick trip and all thier luggage back. Yet they all have one thing in common – the landing. Well, THEIR landing.

So now you know everything you need to know. Cud ja sit er down and come to bed please?

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Ronna Detrick February 10, 2011 at

Almost there. I promise. :)

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The Boyfriend February 9, 2011 at

P.S.
I never understood the attraction of flying First Class – until I met you.

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Ronna Detrick February 10, 2011 at

I’m blushing. Thank you.

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